Sarah O’Hara, a Burlington Mother of two, who is completing a joint Arts Degree/Teaching certificate program at York University, will be our “Critical Consumer” with regular contributions once she has finished her studies this April. A hearty welcome to her. This lady has a keen eye for value.
By Sarah O`Hara
BURLINGTON, ON March 31, 2012 When a friend sent me an email about a Momstown clothing sale, I thought I’d check it out. Last summer my daughter still fit into the shorts, Capri’s and sundresses from the summer before, although they were much shorter than they were originally. I know I won’t luck out again this year, so I am going to have to buy some new things. My friend Christy’s son is three years older than mine, and she hands down all of his clothes to us. We aren’t fortunate enough, however, to have a close friend or relative with a daughter slightly older and bigger than mine, so we have to shop for my six-year-old, Laura.
I have to admit, I do love to shop. Usually I go from Burlington Mall to Mapleview Mall and buy whatever is cute or on sale or durable – all of these are factors in my decisions on clothing for Laura. However, this year we have a different financial situation in my household, so I have to pay more attention than usual to price tags. Thus, when I found out about the Momstown sale I decided to go.
The dream view for every Mother shopping for childrens clothing at bargain prices.
The email said the first hundred people would get a goody bag. I like to get anything for free so I resolved to be there right at eight o’clock, when the sale began. However, when setting my alarm last night I was hesitant to set it too early. After all, it has been a busy week with six a.m. wakeups – Saturday is my morning to sleep in a bit. Besides, would anyone actually show up to buy used clothing and toys at eight o’clock on a cold Saturday morning?
As luck would have it, my kids woke me up by seven thirty anyway, and by eight o’clock Laura and I were out the door. It’s only a few minutes from our house to the Angelic Treasures Christian Childcare Centre on Mountainside Road where the sale was held. We turned onto the street just after eight and immediately saw cars and minivans being rerouted from the already-full parking lot. I groaned inwardly but was determined to follow through on my aim to be financially smart and buy some decent second hand clothes. After all – how long do kids actually wear their clothes? I have donated outfits that have been worn less than a handful of times. Kids grow – fast. It seems silly to pay full price for clothes that only last one season.
I parked on the street and Laura and I trudged through the still-snowy grass to the back of the Centre, following bright orange signs hung with balloons directing us toward the entrance. As soon as we turned the corner I groaned again – this time out loud. There were at least sixty people queued up at the entrance. Mothers, grandmothers, women with very pregnant bellies, a few men, strollers, toddlers, and women with politely unobtrusive lumps under their jackets obviously concealing babies. We made our way to the end of the line. I spoke to the woman in front of me who told me she is not a member of Momstown, the hosts of the sale, but that she often comes to these types of sales. The woman behind me told me she is from Lindsay and is staying in Burlington with her in-laws for the weekend. She is not a member of Momstown either, but heard about the sale on Kijiji. She often finds out about such sales through the Internet and plans for them when she comes to Burlington, as she said there is very little of this sort of thing in Lindsay.
This isn't the line up outside the Angelic Treasures Christian Childcare Centre on Mountainside Road but it paints the picture our Critical Consumer, Sarah O'Hara wants to pass along - the line ups were just too long.
By this time I counted forty people in front of us and forty behind us. It was ten after eight. Slowly, slowly, the line moved. When we were close to the doorway a Momstown representative came around with a clipboard and ballot entries for a draw. With fingers numbed from the cold I filled out my information and asked her if this type of lineup is usual. She assured me these sales always draw such a crowd. Unfortunately, due to space restrictions, only a few shoppers are allowed into the sale at one time. Laura and I finally gained entrance and were relieved to feel the warm air. However, we were then stuck in a tiny vestibule for about ten minutes. This was both the entrance and the exit, so we were routinely pushed up against the wall while people left with sacks full of goodies from clothing to ride-on toy cars.
One of the people exiting was an old high school friend, Lee-Ann. She stopped to chat for a moment and told me she used to be a member of Momstown, but because she worked she was able to make very few of the scheduled events. She told me the meetings are generally held on week days in the afternoons and because of her hours as a working mother she was never able attend. She felt the group is best for stay-at-home mothers or those still on maternity leave with young babies.
We eventually made it to the table in the lobby where we could choose which draw to put our ballot in. I let Laura pick and she chose an Avon draw. I’m sure the stuffed panda in the basket helped to sway her vote. I paid my Toonie to the volunteer at the desk, and then we lined up again to wait for a certain number of people to leave before we could enter the sale proper. A volunteer told me that to my right was the boys’ clothing, across the hall toys, and through to the left girls’ clothes. After that I could continue through to check out.
In about five minutes, after receiving some signal I was not aware of, the volunteer told us we could go in. Laura and I entered a small room lined with racks of boys’ clothes. They started from 0-6 months, 6 months to a year, and so on. The final rack held clothes for ages five and up – this was the one rack that applied to my family in the crowded room. I rummaged through the hangers of assorted clothes, each marked with a price and the identification number of the seller. The clothing ranged from brand new looking to very well worn. I finally found a pair of camouflage shorts for $2.
Mothers shopping for clothing. This wasn't a photograph of the Monstown sale - but it's what you run into when there are crowds looking for bargains.
We then moved into the toy room. This room had games, books, videos, puzzles, cars and dolls. It also held exersaucers, playpens, bicycles, vibrating “bouncy” chairs and safety gates. The prices ranged from a few dollars to about fifty dollars. I saw a bouncy chair for five dollars sitting right beside one nearly identical for thirty. I am not sure who set the prices but the range didn’t make sense to me. I browsed through a table of toy cars and was surprised to see some broken cars for $3. I saw a large tent-like castle which looked like fun but it was $45 – far more than I would pay for such a toy. The toy room was well organized however, and had many books and toy animals neatly packaged in zippy bags at reasonable prices.
Finally Laura and I entered the room we had come to see – girls’ clothes. Again the racks were organized by age. The racks with clothes for young children were bursting at the seams, while the one we were interested in – age five and up – had very little on it. I managed to find two cute pairs of Capri pants for $2 each.
I spoke briefly with Andrea Kovacs, who told me she owns Momstown Hamilton. Momstown is a franchise. The first one was started right here in Burlington, and now there are twenty chapters nation-wide. She told me the $45 per year membership fee pays for all the events and get-togethers members can enjoy. There are both on- and off-line programme events for members, and each event aims to include six pillars that are fundamental in infant and child development. These include literature, nutrition and fitness, art and music, play and socializing, math, and science. The programme also helps mothers to make connections with others. She further informed me that a recent study by the University of Waterloo confirmed that Momstown plays a distinct role in helping new mothers deal with illness such as post-partum depression. Andrea told me that they had thirty sellers there today, and that sixty per cent of their sellers were not members. They have this sale biannually.
Momstown seems to be geared to the stay at home Moms with younger children
When my children were babies we frequented the Burlington Family Resource Centres. Laura was just two weeks old when we first attended “Calling New Parents,” where I learned all the ins and outs of being a new mother. I met many new mothers there whom I still call friends today. We met at each others’ homes, took our babies on walks and to movies. The Centre grew with our children and we were able to register for programs such as Mother Goose, Creep Crawl and Toddle, and Creative Movement and Arts. There are no fees involved and it is a fantastic network for new parents who want to seek out connections and learn about parenting. I guess the biggest difference from the Early Years Centres and Momstown, besides the fee, is the on-line connection. Momstown also hosts events and field trips (which cost extra on top of your yearly fees).
After speaking with Andrea, Laura and I moved on to pay for our three pairs of pants. Of course we were met with yet another line up. A volunteer took the tags off my clothing and put them in an envelope. Then I moved to another line where a volunteer behind a table totaled my bill and gave me a receipt to take to yet another volunteer, whom I paid. She cheerfully asked me if I got the information for another sale just a few blocks away hosted by BAMOM (Bay Area Mothers of Multiples). I replied just as cheerfully that I did, but inside I was aching for the anonymity of a good old mall where I could walk in and out of stores at my will without having to pay to get in, nor wait in lineups to enter and pay, or collect stacks of flyers and coupons (which is pretty much all my “goody bag” held).
This lady was NOT at the Momstown sale - her pet would not have put up with the lineups. Don't think she would have either.
So I spent six dollars for three items – a very good deal. But it took me an hour, and about forty-five minutes of that was spent in lines or shoulder-to-shoulder with other people. I think I will make my way to Burlington Mall next week and see if I can get good deals for Laura’s summer wardrobe without this hassle. I am all for recycling and up-cycling, and for new mothers I would highly recommend buying second-hand items such as cribs and high chairs. But for me, as the parent of a four- and six-year-old, this was more hassle than it was worth. In the future if I want to buy used items, I will do it from the comfort of my home and shop on Kijiji.
The Burlington Momstown can be found at: https://burlington.momstown.ca/
An excellent little shop on Main Street in Milton has no line ups and a very wide range of slightly used and new clothing at bargain prices. SnailsnPails 221 Main Street East, Milton – https://www.snailsnpails.com/
